Subject: Re: The body that holds me back
Going against the grain a little,
I'm NOT overly happy with the way I look. I'm also at a point where it's supposed to matter but I could really care less. Attitude helps carry looks. I know a few butches who are beautiful because of their attitudes. I haven't had the chance to sit down with them and ask them, but they truly show their beauty from their personality. You sound like you're a little unsure of yourself, and that's okay.
At some point though, you're going to have to realize that only you can truly be happy with yourself, or change yourself.
For me, I stopped paying attention to things like appearence and slowly I've grown to just not care, which is better IMO than self hate.
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